Friday, May 10, 2013

friday link love

This week in food.

Happy Friday, folks. This weekend couldn’t come soon enough. Too much transpired over the last seven day – too much!

Last weekend I found out that my former boss and good friend (a young woman) was given a grave diagnosis of ovarian cancer. She was to have surgery on Monday and to start aggressive chemotherapy right away for six months. For the rest of the weekend, I was in a fog. I couldn’t make sense of it: she was so young – and the cancer was, supposedly, incredibly aggressive. She wasn’t even in the age group where this is a threat. This was someone I knew very well, worked closely with for four years, and remained friends with long after our company let most people go. She and her husband came to our wedding. I’ve babysat her dogs, played with her baby daughter, sat on her living room rug while we’d catch up on life. Like most cancer cases, nothing made sense. Black was white; white was black – the world flipped over onto itself. I was so angry this happened.

That same day, after we decided to walk home from Tribeca to Brooklyn Heights, we saw the would-be Brooklyn Bridge jumper, who, thankfully, didn’t jump in the end. But to be on the bridge surrounded by so many onlookers, seeing his tiny silhouette and the police on top of the bridge, talking, pleading – was chilling. The sound of the helicopters cutting through the air; the FBI agent who bumped into us, armed and grave. And the irony of timing: one of those perfect, crisp spring days with bright blue skies and not a cloud up above, and there was this charge in the air, like something bad was going to happen. We left before the police talked the man down. If he was going to jump, we didn’t want to see it. We took the subway home that day.

On Monday afternoon, while picking up some fruit at a nearby store, I saw a woman, a nanny, get hit by a car, while trying to cross a confusing intersection. In a millisecond, she opted to push the stroller out of the way so that the baby didn’t get hurt. But she got hit and was taken away in an ambulance after the little girl’s mother arrived.

That same night, I learned that my friend who had surgery, was cancer free and wouldn’t need chemo. When the surgeons went in, they discovered a very rare case of a benign tumor which they removed. And when her husband called me to tell the good news, “Are you sitting down?” he said before he told me. I thought to myself, “Something awful. I must sit down,” And I did. But instead of something awful, the news turned out to be amazing – a miracle. I was out to dinner with some girlfriends at the time in one of those Manhattan restaurants where everyone is way cooler than you. Standing in the middle of a busy room, I started to cry: it was, in all sense, the very best possible news. Servers and partons buzzed around me, giving me furtive looks – when strangers cry in front of us, best to just ignore it. But I didn’t care: my friend was alive and well and had another amazing shot in life. I cried happy tears.

When I saw my friend the very next day, while she was still recovering from full-body anesthesia, we celebrated instead! We celebrated another chance at life, and remembering what is truly, really important. And so, with that in mind, I hope your weekend is filled with joy and goodness. Take the time to make note of what’s truly important.

Here are this week’s links!

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Guy’s wife gets drunk, tells him a joke, and he animates it. Not since Drunk History have I seen something this awesome produced out of drunkenness.

Unfortunate publishing layouts of our time. Very funny!

Within the conservative ranks, disagreements, fissures on immigration policy.

A disturbing report of sexual assault on the rise in the military.

Research demonstrates how sustainable food systems strengthen the health of local communities.

A less controversial use of drones – I like this one.

Fact-checking “Bee Movie”.

Behold the power of catvertizing. “Nobody wants to see ads anymore. They want cat videos.”

One-third of all US honeybee colonies died last winter. I am obsessed with bees and can’t stop talking about them. Also, this makes me very sad.

How not to die. So important.

Great new use for Viagra! Keeping flowers, um, up for twice as long.

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9 Comments

  • 1

    Wow, Olga. What an emotional roller coaster you’ve been on this week! I’m so sorry that your friend went through an ovarian cancer scare, but how wonderful it is that the tumor was benign. Hope your Friday is calm and quiet. :)

    May 10, 2013 8:51 am
  • 2

    I don’t think I have ever had a week as intense as the one you just described. I’m glad your friend is okay and I hope next week is a little more chill :)

    May 10, 2013 9:29 am
  • 3

    Hi Olga,
    It seems like it’s been one of those weeks for a lot of people. I keep thinking of those poor young women from Cleveland who lost a decade of their lives because some freak decided he would take it from them. It’s wonderful that your friend’s diagnosis turned out not to be dire. Still, I’m sure she went through a terrible fright. Wishing you both an uneventful weekend. And, on a much happier note, I bought your book while I was at the Food Book Fair last weekend. I’m looking forward to cooking from it!

    May 10, 2013 9:37 am
  • 4
    Amy said:

    What a week! So thankful your friend’s growth was benign. How scary.

    I’ve already watched that cute video twice this morning. Thanks for a sweet start to the day!

    May 10, 2013 9:44 am
  • 5
    Kristin said:

    Chills from reading this. So glad for your (and your friend’s) happy ending. On a lighter note, I look forward to clicking through your links every Friday. Keep ‘em coming!

    May 10, 2013 10:30 am
  • 6
    olga said:

    Kristin, Amy, Domenica, Sarah, and MJ – thank you for your kind comments. I can’t even imagine what my friend went through or that poor man on the bridge or that nanny shielding the baby. Crazy week indeed, Cleveland included. Domenica, thank you for buying the book! I hope you like it, and should you have any questions, feel free to shoot me an email!

    May 10, 2013 11:32 am
  • 7

    My word, what a week! Thanks for sharing it with us. Sometimes we need a little reminder to keep things in perspective. I’m so glad your friend is okay!

    May 11, 2013 5:32 am
  • 8
    Deirdre said:

    I don’t personally know you or your friend but I am celebrating her good news with you, hallelujah! :)

    May 13, 2013 4:39 pm
  • 9
    olga said:

    Neena – thank you — i’m SO glad to hear it.

    Deirdre – thank you so much! Still on Cloud 9. :)

    May 14, 2013 1:08 pm

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